If you are feeling a bit shy about trying something different
with your partner, then try it on your own first. Push your
normal boundaries, read a dirty book, or watch a naughty DVD.
Speak your fantasies out loud to yourself. Usually what stops us
from really letting go is worrying what the other person thinks,
but if they are not there, you can really explore what turns you
on! Then you will feel confident enough (and lets not forget
experienced enough) to share it with others!
And finally, if your partner has a fantasy outfit that you
really don’t feel comfortable about wearing, then see how you
can compromise. What is it you don’t like? What is it you do
like? What other outfit might meet both your needs? Once you
have decided what is right for you, be sexy and spontaneous! Buy
it and surprise them, and see what fun you have!
Nicola Forshaw is a relationship coaching
expert, who has featured on SKY TV. She runs a successful
coaching practice NJ Coaching and can be contacted for personal
coaching sessions. Contact her at
www.njcoaching.co.uk
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